Can I really do this #2

[Davide]

I thank god that my wife closed her facebook account a year ago before all this. I would have been all over that in the weeks before I discovered DB. As it was, I looked at her instagram page once, and then she made it private. I know that was a mistake.

You can ignore someone on facebook without defriending them. That sounds like a plan. I actually did that to a common friend that my W and I are still both close to. He posted pictures of her at a party and then also hiking another weekend. It was just unhealthy to keep looking at that.