Orange. Exact same boat. Got a TRO for begging, pleading, refusing to move. She called the cops because I told her I would fight for my kids and 50/50 time with them.
I am curious now since I am NC and pushing a divorce I don't want but have to do for her and my own sanity.
She hasn't done much of anything lately. I have no clue on her mindset or feelings.
We have spoken a few times with mixed results after she dissolved the RO. Once when I was clear and happy...she sounded remorseful and I could hear her old self. Most of the times after though were detached and cold.
I have little hope. Not much hope when they drop a RO on you. Someone advised her to do it. Too bad for her. I have regrets...but she made the situation the way it is now. The EA/PA allows her to move on without me. My focus has to be me and using this adversity to grow. I'm going to IC 3x a week and get to see my kids frequently now. I'm ok...not good. But maybe with more time and space I can get back to being me.
IF, ill be brushing up on your sitch when i have some time tonight. The TRO really makes for a frigging nightmare doesn't it? i hate that it paints me in such a bad light, despite the fact that she is responsible for all this legal horse-crap. it just isn't fair. I know the truth will out though. lighthouse. lighthouse. lighthouse. lighthouse. lighthouse.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
