Advice on my Scenario Pt. 6 - Becoming a Warrior

[OrangeK]

Trust me she is not.....you really can't believe how they present themselves in front of you. For example, last night my EW called me honey twice.

I don't sweat that crap any more, it doesn't mean anything but my point is you don't truly know what is going on in their heads.


It's also best to not try to figure it out

Not trying to figure her out has been a big challenge. I am working on that now. After BD my WW started using my first name only, which she NEVER used to do, it drove me nuts, made her sound like she was scolding me. it was always "Hun".

Also remember there are a lot of things that happen in this world every day to good people. Things happen all the time and friends/family members never know the reason why it happen. Why should you be in different? Why should you be given any more answers to why than anyone else? Remembering this, when I was early in my sitch, helped me with moving on with my life.

I have been trying to keep the thought that "it was no different than a house fire, or a mugging, i was a random victim, move on and overcome"


Thanks Joseph.