Trust me she is not.....you really can't believe how they present themselves in front of you. For example, last night my EW called me honey twice.
I don't sweat that crap any more, it doesn't mean anything but my point is you don't truly know what is going on in their heads.
It's also best to not try to figure it out
Also remember there are a lot of things that happen in this world every day to good people. Things happen all the time and friends/family members never know the reason why it happen. Why should you be in different? Why should you be given any more answers to why than anyone else? Remembering this, when I was early in my sitch, helped me with moving on with my life.
