At the same time it sounds like you drew a lot of strength from not having to worry about that anymore and leaving the state of limbo. Part of me longs for that day. I am getting stronger and detaching, but it is so much harder to do while I am still clinging to the embers of a distant hope of rekindling the MR. Did you feel an immediate relief, or was it more gradual?
Good on you. And thanks for continuing to hang around here and offer your words of wisdom to the rest of us newbies.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019