What MTB said is accurate. Truthfully you are in a no win situation with her right now which should really drive home the importance of NC unless absolutely CRITICAL.
My guess is every time she gets a text message from you she just cringes. You really have to leave her be. I think at the height of my EW's anger towards me I might have only contacted her once a week and that was to organize kid drop off. There was literally no other communication and when I did drop the kids off it was high and by. 5 min's in and out.
I can't stress to you enough that you really need to let her be....let her come to you.
I will, thanks. We have 1st hearing for D in a week. that will be the first face to face since Jan 24th. I am hoping they give us a temp custody order so there is no more ifs and's or buts about any of this.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
