She could have just let it go when she said, OK, I'll let her know for his appointment, but instead she came back with, "Good to know you were planning on cutting it short without saying anything, yet i asked you before making any decisions regarding it. have a nice day" Your SIL is right. She is being antagonistic, aka pushing your buttons. She's trying to get a rise out of you with her sarcasm...
Good point. Its hard to see through the veil of her BS and my emotions. Its amazing how things that are obvious to others aren't obvious to me until explained to me.
thanks brother.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds