And a little too wordy on the haircut response. You don't need to defend yourself. She's trying to push your buttons. I would have sent another thumbs up...
Noted, thanks. Why do you say shes trying to push my buttons? My sister in law called her antagonistic when i showed her the texts.
She could have just let it go when she said, OK, I'll let her know for his appointment, but instead she came back with, "Good to know you were planning on cutting it short without saying anything, yet i asked you before making any decisions regarding it. have a nice day" Your SIL is right. She is being antagonistic, aka pushing your buttons. She's trying to get a rise out of you with her sarcasm...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019