O - I have never once discussed bedtime routines or haircuts for my D's with my EW. Who was normally responsible for his haircuts? IMO the only thing worthy of reaching out to your W for in that conversation was the behavioral problems at daycare. Is your S's school aware of your sitch? Not the details but that you and your W are separated? Just so they are aware and keep their eyes open to any changes in him at school.
I agree with what the other have said.
I would only contact her going forward if it is absolutely critical S conversation or financial. Maybe in the future more dialogue can take place but not right now. The emotions are too raw.
My thoughts.
Yes school is aware we are divorcing. thanks for the input. this is why i post these, so i can do better (or nothing) next time.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
