Me: When you fell comfortable talking, i think we need to discuss mutual routines for bedtime, behavior and learning so its consistent when hes with me vs. when hes with you and OM. Im concerned about some of the behaviors the daycare has mentioned. Just want our Bug doing th best he can. Have a good day.
WW: Well first of all, he only has bedtime routine with ME, but yes, i agree there sgould be some similar routines
WW: also he has a haircut appointment on Monday. I wanted to know if you had any input / preference on what she does to his hair.
Me: I said bedtime learning AND behavior, I dont care what level of involvement OM has at this point its not my business. He was brought into S3's life far earlier than he should have been but thats done so it doesnt matter. I only care about whats best for S3. I had planned on cutting his hair short before it got to hot out as he has been asking for it, it gets in his face and annoys him.
WW: Ok ill let her know for his appointment
Me: *Thumbs Up*
WW:Good to know you were planning on cutting it short without saying anything, yet i asked you before making any decisions regarding it. have a nice day
Me: I havent asked you yet because i hadnt made the appointment yet, As i expect is t he same reason i have not heard from you regarding his doctors appointment. I want to talk to you as little as humanly possible, so i didnt think a haircut needed to brought up until i made an appointment. I noticed you made the appointment before bringing it up to me also. You enjoy your day as well.
Ok people. Give it to me. Good? Bad? what should have been said differently? Should i not have even bothered?
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
