Affair, no feelings...is there hope? IV

[mtb1981]

A few months ago, my W told me she wanted to R. I broke one of Sandi's rules and I made the mistake of believing something she said. She said all the right things, but her actions were not aligning with what she was saying. I remember telling her when she came back that I needed 3 things from her to make this work. Honesty, Respect, and Loyalty. Over the next few weeks, I realized I was not getting any of these from her. Of course she said all the right things to get me to believe I was getting them, but her actions proved otherwise. Less than a month later, it was time for her to go again...