I just posted in another thread how milestone ages (30,40,50) really can affect women.
My W turned 30 at the end of October, and I got the BD at the beginning of January. I truly believe a lot of it has to do with this. It's strange...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019