Thank you Cadet!
I know this is a roller coaster. I'm just trying to detach so I can watch the ride instead of being beside and experiencing the full ups and downs!

Your brief comment was totally on point, appreciated and received fully.

I printed out the detachment thread and have read it 3 times between yesterday and this morning.

Much to work on for myself and also the detaching and not getting sucked into, baited and reacting to W's present ride.

M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18