Yes, It is all about how she feels. Guess she feels sad about losing some things like family life etc, but she still wants to go find herself.
Biggest relief for me has been that I have stopped thinking that if we just talk enough, eventually she wants to recon. Im definitely not detached or emotionally stable but I am heading that way.
I have also started to see more how also she contributed the failure of our marriage and what needs to be changed if we ever recon. Naturally old me thinks once in awhile that if I just would have treated her better, probably she would have not acted how she did in our M but soon I realize that I just did not know then what I know now and let the thought be.
And as said, even though setbacks will happen, time truly seems to help. Very very slowly, but still.
