Maika, congrats on your 1-year BD anniversary (or perhaps congrats aren't appropriate since this is a divorce busting site), but you know what I mean.
I remember your big temperature check at the 3 or 4 month mark. I appreciated that a lot at the time because I was tempted to do the same but never had the kahonias that you did largely because I fully expected to receive the same reaction....dead certainty (but now having given her the satisfaction of knowing that you were still holding out hope, still a plan B as they say around here). Whatever, at least you knew at the time...and perhaps still know...and will never again give her that same satisfaction. Perhaps now, 12+ months in, she wonders.
Anyways, keep on keeping on my man and maybe one day you will watch as she comes to you and maybe, just maybe, she might get lucky and you'll give her another chance.
Ever wonder though why after over a year she still isn't dating?? I do in my sitch, because my ex is still not with another dude by all accounts...after 2+ years...which doesn't make sense to me given how desperate she was to get out...
