OrangeK I have been following your sitch. I am a bit of newbie so take my advice for what it is worth. I currently have 2 IC one is for me to deal with personal issues an dthe other is a marriage counselor. I was very reluctant to see the first one but once I started it was what I needed to do for 20 years and is helping me unpack codepenency stuff and anxiety obsessive stuff. These are all so important when dealing with the crisis and trauma of a seperation and or D. Got to get your house in order.
M 40 W 34 Together 7 Married 2 No Kids BD 1/18 need space Moved out 2/18 ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18 W filed for D 6/18 D final 10/18