She said, I dont know if you care or not, but I thought I would let you know. I cried in the lobby.
I got that from my XW too. She went to my L s office to sign our agreed divorce and parenting plan. She called me about three times while she was there (I was at a C appointment she knew I had) and sent a nasty don t have time for me while I m going through this text because I didn t answer my phone. When I called her back I got a spiel (which she later posted to Facebook) about how she was crying her eyes out and the receptionist and paralegal were so worried about her because of how bad she was. It was, of course, a total fabrication. The paralegal later told me that she d never seen a mother so calm and cold signing a parenting plan that made the husband the primary residential parent.
Remember the advice don t believe anything you hear and only half of what you see? That applies here. And no, laying into her will do you no good. Not with your healing, not with your detachment, not with your DBing.. it s not worth it. You ll feel better for ten minutes and then feel worse for ten days.
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