t seems Sandi is operating under the assumption that she was being genuine but remains very self-centered and you're operating under the assumption that she is completely full of sh!t. Sandi is talking about what to do if we work on the MR and you are saying I should be completely going out of contact (maybe you are just meaning while she is gone?).
Everyone is saying the same thing, 44. We are saying NC while she is gone on this trip. Don't believe anything she says while she is gone and trying to secure her position in the MR, b/c it is manipulation.
Yes, I was talking about working on the MR........but I thought I was clear about not contacting her while she is gone on this trip. We all are in one accord about NC while she is gone. No initiating and no responding. Sorry, if I was trying to give too much at once.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
