Thank you bttrfly, job, Dawn and Focus.

I took a day or so off because Friday was my birthday, 64!

Glam sis and clever nephew plus a couple of his mates came and I cooked. The weather was glorious.

I have taken today off to gym and mooch. I can mooch like a good un when needs must.

My garden looks like a jungle, like my hair.....

I found curly girl which recommends no poo and washing ones hair in conditioner. I have blonde frizz which in dry air could Polish pans and in damp air looks like a halo.

So out goes the shampoo and in comes mega conditioners (no silicone and alcohol). We shall see if it makes any difference to my hair. I am fed up with frizz and fizz.

That's the girlie stuff. Birthday resolve embrace my curls, according to the consultant, I am botteccelli curls. Uggggggggg

Doodler one of the styles I shall not be embracing (you will be pleased to hear) is the Jean thong. I believe it's great for wayward ism though so expect it to catch on big time in that sector. I also will not be dancing the floss or having statement Nipple all of which have are on trend. Lilac as the in colour might be ok ish. And I have read the Cat person article on a disasterous one night stand.

I broke a Toe, well correction a woman in stilettos crushed it in dancing so it's been all upper body workouts for a while. The bone is completely flattened forever although it's healing. I was lucky it wasn't the joint. The toe now looks weird and corkscrew like.

I also passed a very small kidney stones which felt like one from stonehenge. But all clear now. Unsure which hurt more.

I have been unable to concentrate much so am way behind on exam studies, back to it tomorrow. Heavy heavy work load.

So my next question is what is going on with dating? It seems that when I chat away I get dates but it's me that makes the effort. Almost all of it, it's baffling to me.

I just met up with a guy I like for coffee and a glass of prossecco in the sunshine. He told me this is the first proper date he has had in 7 years. Given up on OLD because of 'weirdness'. Trouble is he is too keen to push it forward very fast. Red flag, red flag, red flag........

What is wrong with taking time on it?

He has evaluated that I don't have much of it because of exam pressure for the next couple of months. Soooooo........

I got a text saying whilst he felt chemistry, he had decided I wasn't available for a full on R and besides he thought I was 'too good for him, and would loose interest very quickly and be bored"

What is wrong with dating?

If someone wants a GF don't you have to ask for a date and take the time to get to know someone? So I guess there must be a reason for his behaviour.

I texted back "thank you for explaining your thoughts"

And left it at that. I was very interested in this guy BTW. But not mind reading so moving on. Interest lost.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW