The last thing you need to do right now is talk to your W about your feelings. She doesn't care about your feelings right now. She might want to convince you that she does, but she doesn't. You really need to read Sandi's rules and other threads. They will help you more than you know right now...

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2777879#Post2777879


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...