I am just amazed at your fortitude LH - you being able to DB and just move on with life with your W basically still in your life like an-almost-wife, with the extracurricular activities to boot. I don't know how you did it man.

One of the creeds I live by now is based on what is in my signature. You have to let people come in go in your life as they please.

Also as we have discussed, I am never ever again going to try to convince someone to stay with me.

She is a big girl who can make her own decisions. Time will tell if it was the right one.