^^^ this... My W tried to tell me her and OM just kissed with a little heavy petting just one time back in January. She just told me this a few weeks ago. I had suspected she was having an A since the end of January, and she constantly denied it and said her and OM were "just friends". But looking at some of her messages in the past months, she would refer to OM as her "side piece" and was obsessed with him. Hiding her van behind a local hotel and spending the night at his place. Why she finally decided to admit they hooked up, I don't know. She had just lost her job, was in need of money and asked me for some in the same convo as her admitting the A. So I assume she knew that I was aware of enough, that she had to throw me a bone to seem sincere. But I'm not stupid. There was more than a one night make out session. Keep your guard up. You're doing good...
Thanks for your input, mtb. That's rough, if she only admitted it to get money from you. Sorry to hear that. Duly noted, I know the WW is not above all kinds of lies. In my case, at least I do know for sure it was only one night (then he left the country), but one night is enough...
The other thing to remember is that kissing is more intimate to women than intercourse. So "just kissing" isn't any better in these instances.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
