[s]No[/s] affair, no feelings...is there hope? III

[mtb1981]

first, don't believe her when she says they "just kissed." That's middle school bulls**t. It will all come out in the end and it will be something you may needs answers to before you are on the path to healing.

^^^ this... My W tried to tell me her and OM just kissed with a little heavy petting just one time back in January. She just told me this a few weeks ago. I had suspected she was having an A since the end of January, and she constantly denied it and said her and OM were "just friends". But looking at some of her messages in the past months, she would refer to OM as her "side piece" and was obsessed with him. Hiding her van behind a local hotel and spending the night at his place. Why she finally decided to admit they hooked up, I don't know. She had just lost her job, was in need of money and asked me for some in the same convo as her admitting the A. So I assume she knew that I was aware of enough, that she had to throw me a bone to seem sincere. But I'm not stupid. There was more than a one night make out session. Keep your guard up. You're doing good...