Steve, i have to say that my fog has lifted and i am so much happier raising my son without the dysfunction of my ex!!!

So i think they are right that a kid grows up better not witnessing a dysfunctional relationship. As long as their primary parent is stable.

Its usually their waywardness (drugs, alcohol, affairs) that causes the dysfunction.

M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer