Ibthink with little ones its usually the actual transition that can be rough.
What you can do in the decree is specify that if either of you are to leave son in child care or with a babysitter (including a grandparent) for more then x amount of hours the other parent has first dibs on taking child for that time. This is crucial, cause it enables more one on one time with a parent but it will also keep ypu informed of what is going on.
Also put in the decree something along the lines that if a parent violates terms Of decree and that it is necessary go back to court, the person in violation os responsible for lawyer fees.
Its so important to get this stuff in writing.
Be smart. Just observe what is going on to help you foresee anf come up with a legal document that helps address these issues on the future.
