Juju, how can you be in a relationship and love someone else, when you question if you love yourself? I know it's kind of a "blah" statement to make, but when you really think about it, it makes sense.

When my ex and I split, I was set up with a gal who was on a crappy reality TV Show. She was stunningly beautiful, but seriously said, during dinner, after talking about herself non-stop for 30 minutes "Enough about me, what do you think about me?" That was the end of it for me. If you feel like you are not being treated properly, why settle? Be with someone who is your muse, someone who wants your every moment, someone who understands who you are and what you want.

Best advice I ever got is this, a "Pro's" and "Con's" list. I use it all the time. I will write something at the top of it, about some big decision. Then I will write out the pro's and con's. If I lie, I am only lying to myself. Sometimes, it makes a whole lot more sense when it's all out on paper. I think you will see what is right and what you want fairly quickly, you got this.


Me: 38
W: 32
S10 D6
T: 10 (02/2004)
M: 7 (12/2007)
Separation 02/2015
OM confirmed 01/2015,
D mentioned 12/2014
D finalized 9/2016