Hopefully you are at peace. D day was rough for me emotionally, I remember feelingso defeated and emotionally drained. I can so vididly remember telling the kids. I supposed it is something you will never forget. When we sat them down they thought it was to tell them where our vacation was going to be. Needless to say they were shocked and our youngest asked if it was going to be forever. It crushed me.

Fast forward a year and everything has become a new norm. The girls are happy and adjusted which tells me that I did something right. I had them all day today as the EW didn't come get them until about an hour ago. Had flowers for her and got some gifts for her from the girls. Needless to say this has all become BAU.

You were a beacon of hope in my darkest days and I will be eternally grateful.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018