I am tempted to just get it over with...but I also need some more help and preparation from Sandi
Gee-whiz 44, my post was only three minutes after you said that ^^^^^^^. You didn't wait long, did you?
This is what I mean about her wearing you down. The pressure to just say something was getting to you. If you said exactly what Artista suggested, that's fine, but you must have texted her immediately, or the clock on this board is messed up.
Please don't cave to her, 44. If you do, you'll never resolve this problem and nothing will get better in this M.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!