That is more or less what I was thinking...I think if this was all totally calculated and she was completely aware...maybe that is sociopath territory IDK but very foreign to me as a human being. I can understand she is wayward and trying to convince herself of all kinds of things...I try hard to understand the WW and Sandi and you have helped a lot but at the end of that I cannot embody it because I have not been there myself.
I'm glad you shared your comment about your husband's email...I have many times thought of the feeling of ICE I hope runs through her veins when I tell her I KNOW. Not that I am wishing for her to suffer, but perhaps just to know that she isn't a sociopath...
I used your line...as predicted she is trying to demand we talk now...
M: 26 W: 26 M: 1.5 T: 3 No kids BD: 31 March 2018
W's affair began: 23 March 2018 Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018 Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018 Ended in-house separation: July 2018