That is more or less what I was thinking...I think if this was all totally calculated and she was completely aware...maybe that is sociopath territory IDK but very foreign to me as a human being. I can understand she is wayward and trying to convince herself of all kinds of things...I try hard to understand the WW and Sandi and you have helped a lot but at the end of that I cannot embody it because I have not been there myself.

I'm glad you shared your comment about your husband's email...I have many times thought of the feeling of ICE I hope runs through her veins when I tell her I KNOW. Not that I am wishing for her to suffer, but perhaps just to know that she isn't a sociopath...

I used your line...as predicted she is trying to demand we talk now...


M: 26 W: 26
M: 1.5 T: 3
No kids
BD: 31 March 2018

W's affair began: 23 March 2018
Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018
Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018
Ended in-house separation: July 2018