N, very sorry to hear. There are several of us on the board that have young kids that have gone through the same thing. What Sandi said is 100% correct, time to let go and focus on yourself and the kids. I will help all I can based on what I went through. My EW told me the same thing before she moved out.....she knew she was being selfish but she didnt care, that desire was stronger than her desire to keep our family together.

It really stinks but I can tell you that your kids will be happy handle the situation properly.

Last edited by Cadet; 05/13/18 08:49 AM. Reason: restored post
Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018