She knows herself on some level... on another level she actually believes her stuff... She is surprised that you are not bowing down to her, and that is because she has no clue that YOU KNOW... She thinks she has all her bases covered... Btw, when my H let me know that he knew I was unfaithful, he sent me an email that said I KNOW on the subject line... I had never felt fear run through my body like I did when I read that...