Thanks, Maika! Your translation was epic. You nailed it. She is throwing me everything she has. It feels like every time I get stronger, so do her attacks. I don't want to make the same mistake as you, thank you for helping me not to. Your response suggestion was good, but Sandi and artista have put me on validation probation grin

Artista--yes, yes, and yes. I like your response. Any response I have to this includes confrontation, so wrapping it all up in one and leaving it to face-to-face makes sense. I'm sure this will make her livid and I shudder to think what she might come up with while she stews for a week. But I need to do what needs to be done and I know that is listening to all of you here.

What I want to know is--is she aware of just how self-absorbed and manipulative she is?? Or does she believe her own bullsh!t?

Ugh, she is already sending the "are you there?" messages...


M: 26 W: 26
M: 1.5 T: 3
No kids
BD: 31 March 2018

W's affair began: 23 March 2018
Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018
Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018
Ended in-house separation: July 2018