First, I want to say I know how difficult this all is and how painful it is to have your kids around the OP.

It was the absolute biggest struggle I had with this, I had to deal with it when my daughter was not even a year old.

I have to tell you though. You can ask her to keep him away from the kids, but..... if she chooses not to, there is nothing you can do about it. I tried like heck to keep OW away from my daughter. Didnt work. There is no legal recourse.

So I just chose to know as little as I could. Dont press the kids. Youll just find out what you dont want to know and the. Have no control over it.

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