Artista, I hope you see this bat signal............
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This is a tough one, but I do feel you would do well to reread the validation thread. I feel there were opportunities to validate her feelings and instead you were a little passive-aggressive. But then I am in no way an expert.
OMG! That is the last thing he needs to do is validate her feelings!
Maybe it's b/c you are a H with NGS, but please stop telling him to validate a wayward W that is manipulating him left & right.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
