Originally Posted By: Tate
My W is convinced that our divorce is our family exactly the same but us living in 2 houses...she actually said that.

Me likely living next door is not going to help this dillusion either. Nor is my sister still inviting my W to stuff...I asked my sister to stop, but she wants tge kids to still see each other...I suggested I am the only one to bring tge kids over


I don't get you, I don't get your wife and I don't get your sister... You say your sister is worried about all of this causing her marriage to fail... But she still invites your wife to her home? Both you and your sister have put the relationship between your kids (who are cousins) before what is best for your marriages... Which may very well result in your kids becoming step-siblings... Well, at least all the kids will be super connected to each other, which seems to be super important to you all... Insert Twilight Zone theme song here...