I appreciate the feedback, Sandi. Have I completely detached(?), no, but I am working on it. It is hard to when we are separated but have plans this summer with the kids. Yes. Of course I can just say no and cancel everything, but what does that get me when she offers it and I am trying to do 180s? I already spoke with a lawyer is is advising me on what I can/cannot pay. I am just trying to balance actions and things I do and say. Being punitive I assume does not get one anywhere. In the end, we need to co-parent our kids and my kids.
