True LH, but if your W is in the middle of an A you need to do something for your own sanity and self-dignity.
Controlling others is a different thing.
But you are correct, yet action is the answer. Action directed at yourself. I say this to remind myself. I need it. Expectations get in the way.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
