Gordie - I think of you often. It's good to see you continuing to focus on you and your kids. I know how hard that is with a live-in.

Know that there is nothing you can do for her. So focus on what you can impact.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced