Thanks everyone! Yeah my plan for tomorrow is to keep all talk off the previous relationship. I feel we've had those convos the past two visits and we will just spend the night repeating ourselves. So I plan to steer convos away from that. I'll ask her about something current in her life and get her to talk about that.
The both of us sitting there another night for. 3 hours rehashing our shortcomings and failures in our marriage and apologizing to each other for our parts in the demise is useless now. I want to have fun with her again. I'm bringing a movie I know she loves that we used to enjoy together.
Again, this is all predicated on her not cancelling again. I'm not sold yet that this is really going to go down but we'll see in 24 hours whether I'm with her or posting here.
Thanks again everyone for your insight and thoughts!
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14