Husband gone for second time - 4

[JujuB]

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(((Nicole)))

I think many of us come to these boards because it is our last hope. We dont want to let go. We are afraid to grieve. Afraid of loss.

What many of us eventually discover is that losing a lying, cheating, abusive spouse is akin to losing a malignant cancerous growth.

I have an aquaintance who contracted HIV from her cheating spouse. There are posters here who have contracted STDs.

You have a healthy child, you are healthy, you are educated and have a career. You are luckier then many.

He is not a good partner. You deserve so much better. Him leaving was truly a gift.