M, I had mulitple BD but the first one was a little over a year ago. Never thought I would ever be in this position but I am and I'm dealing with it. Doesn't do me or anyone else(my kids) any good dragging my tail around playing the woe is me card, too much awesome life to live!!
You're updates, I got to say are truly inspirational! I followed along and tried to implement things you were doing because it seemed you had you sh$t together. Keep up the hard work, it will pay of one these days!
