W just tried to call. I was busy at work and didn't want her blowing my phone up for the next 2 hours, so I sent a text saying I was busy and asked her if she needed something. She then texted back "Sorry, I thought you were still on lunch", followed by, "Just wanted to see how D did at her game last night. I also was going to talk to you about something else but it's not a big deal". I just sent back, "She did good". Not sure what that's all about, but I don't really care. Every other time I've got a "want to talk to you about something" text and call her, it ends up with her trying to ask me for money or something. I'm not going to respond. It could also be that she's been thinking about me meeting with the L on Wednesday and after our short talk yesterday she thinks I filed for D. But that's just useless mind reading. Like I said, I'm not going to worry about it and go about the rest of my day...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...