The problem you face is that you're less than two years into your marriage. If you're wife is screwing around already, even if you reconcile this time, there will be another and another. Is that the life you want?
You're young, you don't have children and you don't have a decade invested in a cheater. It's as if the prison guard left the cell door open and you're sitting around wondering what's for dinner.
This is a very pragmatic post, one that is difficult to disagree with. The problem is that the heart wants what it wants. As someone else said in another thread, the reason we LBSs take the blame so readily is we think that will save us. After all, we can fix us! And if our issues are the heart of the MR problems, then fixing us fixes the MR.
The problem is that sometimes the WAS is just flawed. Profoundly flawed, and being the perfect spouse won't fix it. 44, take what doodler says to heart. If you see the faintest possibility of this occurring in 5, 10, 15 years from now then run and don't look back. And don't think that kids will fix things, kids complicate matters. So use this time in limbo to really ask yourself if you are prepared for what is potentially to come.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
