I'll just remind people reading this that not all WAS are the same. To me (without reading) this sounds more of a WW than WAS, as she kept calling to you etc.
I'll give my sitch as an example, where my WAS has moved in with OM and has never said anything to me if it was not related to the kids. Not to even congratulate me on my birthday. In some cases the story is really over at the BD and the OM can be a long term relationship. People forget the fact that you can fix yourself "on-the-fly" too. But as AS said, we who make ourselves the best version we can be, win anyways.
That really stinks, you deserve better!
Question, why do you give a **** if your cheating ex wishes you HBD? I'd just ass soon be wished HBD by ISIS! At least they are loyal to something! She screwed another man while she had a husband and small children at home, but you need to be validated by her, on your Birthday?? Nah man...Miss me with that BS!!
To your other point, yes in very very small percentages (5%) the cheating lowlifes find a way to make it work. That is great news IMO because it keeps them from infecting the rest of us.
Your WAW may seem happy now but TRUST me its all a ruse!
Me: 39 W: 38 S: 15 D: 12 D: 6 BD 8/15 NEED SPACE S 2/16 Divorced 4/17 and loving it, waw came back 12/17.....I declined
