I will just remind people reading this that not all WAS are the same. To me (without reading) this sounds more of a WW than WAS, as she kept calling to you etc.
I will give my sitch as an example, where my WAS has moved in with OM and has never said anything to me if it was not related to the kids. Not to even congratulate me on my birthday. In some cases the story is really over at the BD and the OM can be a long term relationship. People forget the fact that you can fix yourself on-the-fly too. But as AS said, we who make ourselves the best version we can be, win anyways.
That [censored] but why do you give a [censored] if someone who screws other people while married with children, wishes you Happy Birthday??? Like she is some prize?? I would just as soon be wished happy birthday by ISIS..at least they are loyal to something. Miss me with that nonsense.
And to your other point...you are right. In very very small percentages (5 per cent) cheating scumbags actually stay together and find a way to make it work!! Which is great because it keeps them from infecting the rest of us again.
I can PM you the source of my data if needs be. It won t let me post a link to another page.
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Me: 39 W: 38 S: 15 D: 12 D: 6 BD 8/15 NEED SPACE S 2/16 Divorced 4/17 and loving it, waw came back 12/17.....I declined
