Really, who gives a crap who files. I don't understand why people make such a big deal out of it. It's who decided to destroy the M, not who actually filed for D who decided to get divorced.
One thousand percent agree with that. I stopped caring about that a long time ago. Do what's right for you. If you want D, stop wasting time and just go for it and get it done. Don't make it an impulse decision, but sit with it for a bit and when you realize you're not making it out of pure emotions, just do it.
I've entertained D for a few months now, but now I am in a place where I am good with it and I will file if W doesn't first. I don't give a rats a$$ if she gets to say to other people that I filed or if my filing proves to her that I didn't want to be with her. Honestly I couldn't give two f$%#s at this point! Look to what you want in life and if it's D, then so be it.
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