Chris - my W is doing something similar right now. Trying to guilt me into filing for D, even though I have repeatedly said that I do not want one. She thinks that it is my responsibility to do the dirty work for her and stomps her feet when I don't play along.
I am watching your sitch closely. Stay strong.
M: 50 W: 47 No kids together M: 10 T: 11 BD #1: 12/14 R #1: 7/15 BD #2: 1/18 D Filed: 6/18/18 D Final: 01/28/19 Currently still in-house