Hi Nicole,

This sounds encouraging, even if it just leads to civility between the two of you...that has to be a lot better than how it was in the past.

It will also make it a much nicer environment for your daughter. Just keep the lines of communication open, but be level headed about it. H seems to bounce around emotionally, so try not to get caught up in his emotions.

Your life is forging ahead in a good way...be proud of yourself.


Me 50 H 48
S 23 S 21 D 19
Together 31 years
Married 25 years
Separated April 2009 Reconciled 2010
Separated September 2017