WW wants to reconcile. I'm being pursued.

[Amazona]

Hello Anative,

What you are feeling now is not strange.
Whatever the reason that your wife has a changed in heart will not matter for you as of now.
Let your wife work hard to win you back.
If you can hold on for 2 years, then do it.
If she says she loves you, do not respond with I love you, just keep your silence.
I have realized from my own relationship and from others, if your partner is not invested or has not invested, they are easy to leave or look somewhere else. If you want her to stay in the relationship, play it smart, you now have the upper hand.
The secret to happiness is not having regrets about the past and not worrying about the future.
Live for today.

This helped me during my darkest days.


Forced your wife to decide what she want but make sure that her decision is an established decision and not a rebound relationship or perhaps because the OM is no longer an option and you are the only option left.
Let her drool for 2 years, play hard to get, so next time she looks somewhere else, she will think hard on all the investments she has placed on your marriage.

Good luck!