almost a year since my last post...still feeling very frustrated....

w makes no attempt to show any sort of affection whatsoever...I try and kiss her and she finds every excuse possible to pull away...should i ask her to move out?...ask her to move out of the bedroom again?....my DB coach told me to avoid things which push her away...

we can still have good conversation and support each other..we travel together and have a great time...we do quite well financially together....but i dont want to live with an acquaintance....i want a meaningful intimate relationship with the person i love...is this too much to ask??...I am willing to admit my role and shortcomings in our relationship and do the work necessary, but it seems like she is not..

I never make any serious move in bed since i fear rejection and see no sign she is remotely interested...is it possible I'm misreading and she thinks since I don't make any move that i'm not interested??

complete frustration here..any tips??


Me 42 Her 47
M 10yrs